My family’s most memorable Thanksgiving dish is the one we only had once.
Let me explain by introducing you to my grandmother. Nona was the kind of woman who was always impeccably dressed and accessorized. I still remember her stylish oversized, round spectacles. She was a seasoned cook and an excellent host. Each year her elegant Thanksgiving table was trimmed in her orange and rust Spode dishes with matching linens and candles.
So, when she announced that she had a special dish she had made for the grandkids, we were excited. Thanksgiving at her house came with an abundance of sides including her signature black cherry jello and cheese onions. Thus, our anticipation for this new dish grew as we smelled what was cooking in the kitchen.
Then came the big moment when we were allowed in the dining room. As our plates were filled, there it was – candied sweet potatoes with rainbow marshmallows. I watched as my grandmother took the first bite. Her lips pursed as she thought for a moment.
“Well, the sweet potatoes are a little tutti-frutti.”
She laughed and we all laughed with her. This unexpected cornucopia of marshmallow flavors was clearly a mistake. She had not anticipated the fact that the multi colored mini marshmallows would be flavored. However, I still smile when I think about it.
I remember that Thanksgiving because I loved that my grandmother made a dish for me. Consequently, when I host Thanksgiving for my family, I like to make sure that I think about my daughters with a kid friendly macaroni and cheese. This recipe has classic cheeses that my kids will eat. It is delicious but not so gourmet that my kids give it a suspicious look. In the end, I want our Thanksgiving table to filled with dishes that everyone gets excited about.
Thanksgiving Macaroni and Cheese
- 3 cups grated cheddar, divided use
- 2 cup grated Monterey Jack
- 3 cups grated or diced Velveeta
- 1 pound macaroni
- ½ cup butter
- 6 tablespoons flour
- 4 cups whole milk
- 2 teaspoons dry mustard powder
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
Bread Crumb Topping
- 2 tablespoons butter
- 1/2 cup panko breadcrumbs
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Grate the cheddar cheese setting aside one cup for the topping. Then grate the Monterey Jack and Velveeta.
Next, in a large pot cook the macaroni in according to the package directions cutting the cooking time by two minutes. The pasta will continue cooking when it is baked. Drain the macaroni well and place it in a large bowl.
Make the cheese sauce. First, heat the milk in the microwave or on the stove top in a saucepot until warm. In a deep skillet or large saucepan melt the butter over medium heat. Sprinkle in the flour and stir until golden for about two to three minutes. Slowly pour in the warm milk while whisking with each addition to ensure that the mixture is smooth. Add the dry mustard, salt and cheese. Continue to stir until all the cheese is melted and the sauce is smooth.
Pour the cheese sauce on top of the macaroni and mix. It will look like a lot of sauce, but it thickens as it bakes. Spray a 9×13 inch with cooking spray and pour in the macaroni and cheese.
Finally, prepare the breadcrumbs. In a medium skillet melt 2 tablespoons of butter over medium heat. Stir in the breadcrumbs and toast them for 2 to 3 minutes. Sprinkle the remaining cheddar cheese and the breadcrumbs on top. Bake for 30 minutes until golden.

Notes for Making This Casserole Ahead
If you are making this for a holiday meal it can be made the day before but wait to add the breadcrumbs until baking. When cooking straight from the fridge cover the casserole with aluminum foil to prevent over browning. Bake with the foil first 10 minutes and then remove it and bake for an additional 30 minutes.
Additionally, should you not want to add the breadcrumbs then I suggest covering the casserole with foil for the first half of the baking time to prevent the cheese from browning too quickly. The breadcrumbs provide a covering and without them the cheese tends to brown much faster.


























































